If you’re considering adoption in Texas, you may wonder about the difference between open and closed adoption. Both options have unique benefits, and understanding how each one works can help you decide what’s best for your family.
Understanding open adoption
In an open adoption, the birth parents and adoptive parents share identifying information. This can include names, phone numbers, or even regular contact through visits, emails, or calls. Open adoptions allow the child to build relationships with both families, which can help answer questions about identity and background as the child grows.
Open adoption doesn’t look the same for every family. Some people choose to keep contact limited to updates and photos, while others set up in-person visits. It’s all about what both sides agree on in the beginning. These agreements are often informal in Texas, though they can be documented in writing.
How closed adoption works
Closed adoption does not involve the exchange of identifying information. Birth and adoptive families do not maintain contact, and the child’s records are usually sealed. This option creates privacy for all parties involved. It may be a better fit when safety, emotional boundaries, or other concerns are present.
Once the adoption is final, the birth certificate is changed to reflect the adoptive parents’ names. In Texas, adopted children may request access to their original birth certificate once they become adults, but that process can take time and may not guarantee full access.
Choosing what works for your family
Deciding between open and closed adoption depends on your comfort level and long-term goals. Some adoptive parents want their child to have a connection with their birth family. Others feel more comfortable with a private, closed process. Texas law allows flexibility, so both types are valid and legal.
Having clear boundaries and mutual respect helps everyone involved. Whether you prefer openness or privacy, the most important thing is choosing the option that provides the child with a stable and loving home.
Building a strong foundation
No matter which adoption type you choose, Texas supports your decision. Learn as much as you can, talk through expectations, and create an agreement that puts the child’s needs first.
